All Mediators share the Intuition and Feeling partnership, which means they instinctively understand the emotional needs of others and are the most ethical of the personality groups.  They do not need rules to tell them something is wrong, because they already know.  Deeply private about their complex inner thoughts but loving, loyal, and highly intuitive with an inborn sense of morality.  They may be soft spoken but are very strong-willed, fighting for what they believe in, knowing karma will have its turn with the unethical sooner or later.  They are organized dreamers and mystical, with vivid imaginations, and understand what it takes to achieve their goals, which often involve correcting injustices and fighting for the rights of others.  They enjoy taking care of others and are comfortable with emotions, often speaking in human terms, but they need time alone to recharge.  They will often put the needs of others before their own and expect others to be equally kind and conscientious.  INFJs are warm and honest, and inspiring to others, preferring to use their talents to better the world- so much so that they tend to be lost without a cause to support.  All relationships are based on mutual understandings, respect, and authenticity; lies do not go far with them, making them excellent judges of character.  Their opinions of others should be trusted since their intuition, high moral standards, and inability to be unfair, gossip, and hold power over others mean they have no ulterior motives and nothing to gain.  You will certainly know you are loved, both by the small actions they will take to see you smile, and the words of kindness and affection they regularly speak.  They do not take criticism well, because kindness, organization, and efficiency comes naturally, as do win-win situations.  A natural talent for nurturing small close groups and establishing efficient systems means that their family will be well taken care of and become their primary social circle and focus.